Since restarting this blog, I’ve told a few close friends about it. This has prompted them to elect me as their go-to relationship guru, which is pretty funny because I know the least information about this stuff than anyone which is why I have this blog.
Recently, I’ve found myself in conversations where friends are dealing with someone who is adding undue irritation into their life.
girls, who were bullied most of their life and gain confidence at one point, should be feared most because they dont take anyone’s shit no longer and they will destroy you if you think otherwise
let’s all take a minute to stop and think about how Hagrid gave Harry his homemade birthday cake, told him how much he looked like his parents, and fed him sausages before he even started to explain that he was a wizard
let’s stop to think about how his absolute first priority was to let harry know that he was loved and cared for
Rubeus Remus Potter is what Albus Severus’ name should have been.
how do people do backflips and shit like i can’t even flip my grilled cheese without fucking up
send me two characters and i’ll tell u which one i’d rather smooch
HAVING A CRUSH SUCKS LIKE I MIGHT AS WELL HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH A KITCHEN APPLIANCE
Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.
This is such a load of crap. All human bodies are different, and they all respond differently to different kinds of stimuli, so to say that we’re all supposed to not bleed and not feel pain is just bollocks, just like saying it should be the other way around is bollocks.
You don’t actually know what’s going to happen to you until it happens, and there’s a massive number of factors involved that could make you bleed or not, such as if you’re quite tight and you’ve never stuck anything in your vagina, the friction might make you bleed because your skin is not used to it (this also depends on the sensitivity of your skin, or if you have a previous condition, and so on), or if by some miraculous way you managed to keep your hymen intact all your life, since it’s such a fragile membrane and the simplest things can break it, like riding a bike or wearing a tampon, depending on your particular anatomy.
There is also a lot of misinformation about the hymen: IT DOESN’T ACTUALLY STRETCH ACROSS YOUR VAGINA. Just like everything else, there are different types of hymens, but most commonly they surround the walls of it, and depending on how thin or thick they are they can bleed a lot, bleed a little, or not bleed at all when you lose your virginity. Some of them are even quite elastic and never break at all, like I mentioned before, it depends on a lot of different things.
As for the original statement rambling on about male domination, when I lost my virginity, my partner was very gentle with me, made sure I was entirely comfortable, I was very much aroused and had no problem whatsoever getting wet, and it still hurt a little (not really ‘hurt’, but more like a bit of pins and needles) and I still bled a little bit, so that to me negates everything they said.
So to sum up, whoever wrote this is a moron with a feminist agenda who needs to pick up a fucking biology book and educate themselves before they go making such retarded statements and scaring women into thinking that all men are twats, because trust me, there are still a few good ones out there.
Thanks for reading.
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